Advice / question

Hey! So I’ve been getting my nails done with builder gel for about 2 years. I started because I wanted to grow my natural nails long while keeping them sturdy and still having cute designs. I enjoy going and getting them done and I like my nail lady. She does such a good job hand painting everything…. But lately I’ve noticed my nails breaking often and more specifically the paint and gel is lifting up and peeling off ??? I do use cuticle oil but definitely not as often as I should (maybe once a day or every other day, sometimes longer) and I work in healthcare so I am washing and sanitizing my hands a lot throughout work. Is it just wear and tear ? Could I do something? Any advice or guidance here please, thank you!!